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Pennsylvania Bullying
Prevention Toolkit

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    • Why Do Kids Bully?
      • Why do kids bully?
      • When Bullying Crosses the Line
      • What can be done to prevent bullying?
      • What strategies do kids find most helpful?
    • The Role of Adults
      • The Role of Adults
      • Tips for parents of children who bully others
      • Tips for parents of children who are bullied at school
      • Tips for parents of children who witness bullying
    • The Role of Educators
      • The Role of Educators
      • The role of health care providers
      • Addressing Cyberbullying at Home
      • What should schools do to address cyberbullying?
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Pennsylvania Bullying
Prevention Toolkit

  • Best Practices
  • Toolkit
    • What is Bullying?
      • What is bullying?
      • Bullying and conflict
      • Why should I be concerned about bullying?
      • The Role of Bystanders
    • Why Do Kids Bully?
      • Why do kids bully?
      • When Bullying Crosses the Line
      • What can be done to prevent bullying?
      • What strategies do kids find most helpful?
    • The Role of Adults
      • The Role of Adults
      • Tips for parents of children who bully others
      • Tips for parents of children who are bullied at school
      • Tips for parents of children who witness bullying
    • The Role of Educators
      • The Role of Educators
      • The role of health care providers
      • Addressing Cyberbullying at Home
      • What should schools do to address cyberbullying?
    • References
  • About
    • About the Toolkit
    • Center for Safe Schools
    • The Highmark Foundation
  • Resources
    • Publications, Websites and Organizations
    • Referral Protocol for Suspected Bullying
    • Sample Letter to Schools
  • Care. Connect. Champion.
Toolkit
Section 12

Tips for Parents and Caregivers of Children Who Witness Bullying

It is very likely that your child has observed a bullying incident while at school or in the neighborhood.

Bystanders, while not directly involved in bullying, can be negatively impacted by these encounters.

They may feel anxious about what they witnessed, worried about the bullied child or ambivalent about how to respond. Your response can help your child recognize that bullying is a serious problem and can empower your child to become an ally to children who are bullied.17,22

If your child reports that he or she observed bullying, listen carefully to the description of what occurred. Be on the lookout for escalating negative behaviors or increasingly violent behaviors against one child and report this to the school.

Establishing positive communication is key to supporting young people. This includes being available for your child, listening to him or her and responding non-judgmentally when your child shares a concern.

In order to promote positive communication, it is often helpful to ask your child to brainstorm possible solutions to problems before sharing your own ideas. Developing this routine in daily interactions can prepare your child to respond flexibly and effectively in problem situations.27

Talking to Children Who Are Bystanders

  • Ask questions to discover your child’s experience with bullying at school:
    • What is your child’s relationship to the child who bullies and the target?
    • What do your child’s friends think and do about bullying?
    • What does your child think he or she should do?
  • Reflect on your child’s feelings. Consider what issues may be influencing your child and the choices of bystanders.
  • Brainstorm a range of helpful bystander responses.
  • Discuss potential outcomes to different responses and have your child identify a positive action he or she is willing to try.
  • What is Bullying?
    • What is bullying?
    • Bullying and conflict
    • Why should I be concerned about bullying?
    • The Role of Bystanders
  • Why Do Kids Bully?
    • Why do kids bully?
    • When Bullying Crosses the Line
    • What can be done to prevent bullying?
    • What strategies do kids find most helpful?
  • The Role of Adults
    • The Role of Adults
    • Tips for parents of children who bully others
    • Tips for parents of children who are bullied at school
    • Tips for parents of children who witness bullying
  • The Role of Educators
    • The Role of Educators
    • The role of health care providers
    • Addressing Cyberbullying at Home
    • What should schools do to address cyberbullying?
  • References
  • What is Bullying?
    • What is bullying?
    • Bullying and conflict
    • Why should I be concerned about bullying?
    • The Role of Bystanders
  • Why Do Kids Bully?
    • Why do kids bully?
    • When Bullying Crosses the Line
    • What can be done to prevent bullying?
    • What strategies do kids find most helpful?
  • The Role of Adults
    • The Role of Adults
    • Tips for parents of children who bully others
    • Tips for parents of children who are bullied at school
    • Tips for parents of children who witness bullying
  • The Role of Educators
    • The Role of Educators
    • The role of health care providers
    • Addressing Cyberbullying at Home
    • What should schools do to address cyberbullying?
  • References
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