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Pennsylvania Bullying
Prevention Toolkit

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    • What is Bullying?
      • What is bullying?
      • Bullying and conflict
      • Why should I be concerned about bullying?
      • The Role of Bystanders
    • Why Do Kids Bully?
      • Why do kids bully?
      • When Bullying Crosses the Line
      • What can be done to prevent bullying?
      • What strategies do kids find most helpful?
    • The Role of Adults
      • The Role of Adults
      • Tips for parents of children who bully others
      • Tips for parents of children who are bullied at school
      • Tips for parents of children who witness bullying
    • The Role of Educators
      • The Role of Educators
      • The role of health care providers
      • Addressing Cyberbullying at Home
      • What should schools do to address cyberbullying?
    • References
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Pennsylvania Bullying
Prevention Toolkit

  • Best Practices
  • Toolkit
    • What is Bullying?
      • What is bullying?
      • Bullying and conflict
      • Why should I be concerned about bullying?
      • The Role of Bystanders
    • Why Do Kids Bully?
      • Why do kids bully?
      • When Bullying Crosses the Line
      • What can be done to prevent bullying?
      • What strategies do kids find most helpful?
    • The Role of Adults
      • The Role of Adults
      • Tips for parents of children who bully others
      • Tips for parents of children who are bullied at school
      • Tips for parents of children who witness bullying
    • The Role of Educators
      • The Role of Educators
      • The role of health care providers
      • Addressing Cyberbullying at Home
      • What should schools do to address cyberbullying?
    • References
  • About
    • About the Toolkit
    • Center for Safe Schools
    • The Highmark Foundation
  • Resources
    • Publications, Websites and Organizations
    • Referral Protocol for Suspected Bullying
    • Sample Letter to Schools
  • Care. Connect. Champion.
Toolkit
Section 10

Tips for Parents and Caregivers of Children Who Bully Others

Sometimes parents must deal with situations in which their children have behaved in a way that is mean and hurtful to others.

Parents can support children who bully to make positive behavioral changes by using the following strategies.17

 

Discuss bullying and set clear rules at home.
It is important to have consistent, clear rules that have fair and predictable consequences. Redirect your child and provide negative consequences when your child demonstrates verbal, physical, electronic or relational aggression directed at another child. Praise your child when he or she chooses not to participate in bullying behavior or when he or she helps a student who is being bullied.

Talk with your child.
Ask for your child’s account of the bullying incident. Be prepared to be objective and to listen carefully. Explain your understanding of the bullying incident. Clearly communicate that this type of behavior is serious and will not be tolerated.

Understand bullying policies and work with the school.
All parents should be informed of the school’s bullying policy and procedures. If your child is involved in bullying at school, be prepared to support the school’s actions. You may wish to set up a schedule of regular meetings with school staff to gain feedback on how your child is responding to any interventions to address peer aggression.

Help your child connect with peers who demonstrate positive behavior.
Peers can serve as positive role models for children and are important players in the bullying dynamic.

Model the behavior you expect from your child.
Show respect to others. Solve problems without aggression. Set a good example for your child.

  • What is Bullying?
    • What is bullying?
    • Bullying and conflict
    • Why should I be concerned about bullying?
    • The Role of Bystanders
  • Why Do Kids Bully?
    • Why do kids bully?
    • When Bullying Crosses the Line
    • What can be done to prevent bullying?
    • What strategies do kids find most helpful?
  • The Role of Adults
    • The Role of Adults
    • Tips for parents of children who bully others
    • Tips for parents of children who are bullied at school
    • Tips for parents of children who witness bullying
  • The Role of Educators
    • The Role of Educators
    • The role of health care providers
    • Addressing Cyberbullying at Home
    • What should schools do to address cyberbullying?
  • References
Section 10

Resource

WHAT EVERY PARENT SHOULD KNOW ABOUT BULLYING

  • What is Bullying?
    • What is bullying?
    • Bullying and conflict
    • Why should I be concerned about bullying?
    • The Role of Bystanders
  • Why Do Kids Bully?
    • Why do kids bully?
    • When Bullying Crosses the Line
    • What can be done to prevent bullying?
    • What strategies do kids find most helpful?
  • The Role of Adults
    • The Role of Adults
    • Tips for parents of children who bully others
    • Tips for parents of children who are bullied at school
    • Tips for parents of children who witness bullying
  • The Role of Educators
    • The Role of Educators
    • The role of health care providers
    • Addressing Cyberbullying at Home
    • What should schools do to address cyberbullying?
  • References
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